In a matter of a few short weeks, my girl will be 30 years old. Given that she needed behavioral supports from the age of 2, I should have known that the road was going to be unpaved, bumpy and filled with unexpected turns.   29th Birthday Party I have learned to appreciate every success, every word that comes out of her mouth and her ability to be immersed in our community, a dream, years ago, I thought only for others. Let's get to this age appropriate concept ... is it age appropriate for us as parents in our 50's and 60's, to still have 24/7 responsibility for an adult child? I think not. Look around at your friends who are off traveling, planning their next adventure without a single thought about their children's care, should lend you some perspective.   So, I say this, as long as it is safe, do what needs to be done to make your life easier, more relaxed, happier, allows your child to be comfortable in your community and if someone has a problem ...

News Flash! During a 20-30 minute stand-off at the San Jose Safeway Check Out Stand--Mother Makes a Breakthrough!    Situation : Mother Taken Hostage by a Giant Red Lobster !  I began to wonder... how did this happen? We entered the doors, happy and peaceful. After all, she got to go to work with me since one of her staff was ill and she loves being at PHP, so all was well. We got the cooked chicken, some salad fixings and were ready to go make our lunch when she spotted it!  This  Giant Red Lobster , soft on the outside, stuffed with cushy material on the inside, who vaguely resembled Ariel's friend from the Little Mermaid but you can see that in the video. Those of you that know me are probably aware that I believe that Lauren has the right to make decisions and to be supported in a way that works for her.  I have studied, practiced, listened and read but continue to be challenged at times over how to manage a challenging situation when it comes to...

Thoughts that might otherwise become lost.: Positive Change: One Method : Click here to see the video. My first try using Adobe voice. What do you think?  Go to full screen using the 4 arrows to view with out t...

Click here to see the video. My first try using Adobe voice. What do you think?  Go to full screen using the 4 arrows to view with out the blog background. This message is Lauren approved.